The Shift From Victim vs Victor Thinking
Most of us spend our lives caught in the tension of victim vs victor, often without even realizing we have a choice in how we frame our own stories. It's easy to get sucked into a cycle where life feels like something that just happens to us, rather than something we're actually participating in. We've all been there—sitting on the couch, venting to a friend about how the boss is unfair, the car broke down again, or the universe seems to have a personal vendetta against our weekend plans. It feels natural to point outward when things go sideways, but staying in that headspace is a trap that's hard to escape once you've settled in. ...